Accountability Check-Up
Questions to Start
How has God
blessed you this week?
(What went right?)
What
problem has consumed your thoughts this week?
(What went wrong?)
Spiritual Life
God's Word - Have you spent time
daily with God through prayer and Bible study? What has God been teaching you?
(How many days? How long? Why not? Will you next week?)
Prayer - Describe your prayers - for yourself, for
others, praise, confession, gratitude. How is your relationship with Christ evolving?
Temptation - How have you been tempted this week? How
did you respond? Have you maintained
boundaries of sexual purity
in your life, staying away from:
a. flirtations
b. lustful thoughts
c. compromising situations
d. materials that are not
God-honoring?
Confession - Do you have any unconfessed sin in your life?
Worship
- Did you worship in church this week?
(Was your faith in Jesus strengthened? Was He honored?)
Witness - Have you shared your faith? In what ways? How can you improve?
Home Life
Wife - How
is it going with your wife? If single, have you cultivated relationships
that would honor your future wife?
(time, meaningful conversation, attitudes, intimacy,
irritations, disappointments, her relationship with Christ)
Children - How are your children?
(giving
encouragement, quantity and quality time, values, education, spiritual welfare)
Finances - How are your finances
doing? Have you been above with all of your financial dealings?
(debts, sharing, saving, spending, stewardship)
Time - How have you invested your time around
the house? Have you worked to
maintain a healthy body through
exercise and proper eating?
Work Life
Job - How are things going?
(career
progress, relationships, temptations, work load, stress, problems, working too
much?)
Critical Concerns
God's Will - Do you feel you are
in the center of God's will? Do you sense His peace?
Thought Life - What are you wrestling with in secret?
Service - What have you
done for someone else this week which can't be repaid?
(the poor,
encouragement, mercy, service to others)
Priorities - Are your priorities in the right order?
Integrity - Is your moral and ethical behavior as it should be? Have you been completely
honest (including avoiding "half-truths" or "white lies")
and been a man of integrity even in the little things?
High-Risk - How are you doing in your personal
high-risk area?
Transparency - Is the "visible" you and the
"real" you consistent in our relationship?
(if not, in what ways?)
In Closing / Prayer
Have you been completely honest today as you have answered these questions?
BONUS: Which one of the above questions can I specifically pray for you this week? Pray together.